How to Woo a Girl

 Have you ever wanted to woo a girl, and make her sigh dreamily when she thinks about you? Here are some great ways to impress her.

Steps

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   Show interest, and show her that you would like to get to know her and you were happy to meet her or talk to her.
    2 Break the ice. This is one of most seemingly dicey things to do, but once you have done this, holding a conversation and laughing will be easy, and you will begin to share a good rapport. A good laugh is always a smart way to break the ice. For example, you would show this webpage to her, and have a laugh over what is written and the whole idea of having such a page as well.
   
2. • Learn to be spontaneous. Taking an improv acting class can help with ideas for breaking the ice, and can help you be confident with talking to new people. Ideas flow, and it becomes easier to enter into and disengage from conversation, and can help you be more comfortable with any situation.
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   Always look into her eyes when speaking to her. That subtly will make her see that you are really taking an interest. Just be careful not to get lost in her eyes when she's talking, otherwise the only thing you'll have to respond with is "Wow, you've got pretty eyes." (see the first point).
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   Be sensitive and caring. Let her cry on your shoulder if she's sad. Make her smile when she's feeling crummy. However remember that she wants a man in her life so don't be supplicating.
   • Whisper in her ear. Girls love this.
   • If you have little siblings, nieces, or nephews, show her that you really care for them. Play with them, watch over and protect them, show the girl that they look up to you.
   • Help others in front of her (although you should be helpful anyway). Help the poor and needy to show that how much you care for others. But, show some more care for her, which she thinks that, this is only for her.
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   Make her laugh. Girls love guys with a great sense of humor. That doesn't mean you should never take anything seriously, or else you'll come off as a clown.
   • Try to know her a little bit more before you attempt to be jocular (certain jokes for you might not be funny to her). Knowing her culture, her background, and most importantly things she likes will also be helpful.
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   Learn to dance and learn dance etiquette. Take some ballroom classes to build your confidence, so you learn to lead a girl through a song. Girls love guys that can dance.
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   Dress nicely. Use an attractive cologne if necessary. Be very hygienic when you are around her.
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   Lead. She wants to be the wooed and not do the wooing so be the first to initiate touch (non-sexual and sexual). Be the one that comes in for the kiss. NEVER ask for ideas for what to do on the date, make plans and a back-up. If she knows of something better she will tell you.
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   Be original. For example, for Valentine's Day (if you celebrate it) be sweet or thoughtful instead of showy and cliched. A dozen red roses may be the traditional romantic gift, but most girls will be better pleased with a few of their favorite flowers tied with a red, pink, or white ribbon. Actually remembering a girl's favorites will endear you to her more than any elaborate scheme. If it's early in the relationship, though, and you don't know her favorites yet, a teddy bear (or other stuffed animal) is a perfectly fine fallback gift. Do something original to you. But make sure you make her feel comfortable as well.
   • Pick up lines are OK as long as they aren't obnoxious (meaning avoid the vast majority) or overtly sexual to someone you don't know.
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     Tips

     • Don't stalk girls. They will start to avoid you. However, dropping cute text messages every now and then is okay.
     • Nothing is sexier than confidence. However, nothing is as unattractive as arrogance, or more annoying than a needy lack of self-esteem. Try with everything you have to find the drawing medium which is confidence.
     • Ask her how she's doing and try to notice her moods. If she's sad, comfort her. If she is mad, ask her "What's wrong?" If she does not want to talk about it, don't press.
     • If you think something's wrong, ask her. Remember what she says and what she is saying. It might come up later on in the future.
     • Keep it cool, because even if a girl doesn't like you now, chances are that if you play your cards right you'll eventually spark an interest.
     • Treat her with respect, and don't say rude things about her behind her back.
     • Girls don't like nasty breath. Eat mints regularly and brush teeth often.
     • Be protective for her. Girls love to be defended not to be the defender.
     • Calling her pretty or beautiful is more appreciated than hot or sexy, in fact, try to avoid the latter as much as possible.
     • Make sure that you are not mean to her, ever. Girls simply do not accept that.

     
     

     
     

     Warnings

     • When you are ready for the first kiss and the mood is right, lean towards her slowly, but don't shove your face into hers. If she doesn't back away, gently lean the rest of the way in for the kiss. Some tips say go halfway there, or 80 or 90 percent. Go with what feels natural for the moment. Going all the way can work, but it depends on the girl. Bottom line, lead the kiss, but let her come to you.
     • Watch yourself. You can't always act the same around girls as you do around your male friends, especially at first.
     • Don't ever force any girl to do something she doesn't want to do.
     • Get close with the girl's family. Knowing that she has her family's approval makes her more comfortable.
     • A girl tells her best friend everything. Don't be afraid to hear a comment slip from the friend's lips about something you said. But, on the contrary, there are certain things she will keep to herself. A lot of times, the best friend will keep things for herself too because she doesn't want you to think she's creepy. Don't judge a girl by things her best friend does. If she loves her, then you better get used to her too.
     • Don't discuss any intimate details about your girl with your friends, it will get out.
     • If a girl is known to spread rumors about exes, be extra careful and consider whether this is really the girl for you.
     • Do this for every girl you are in a relationship with. If word gets out that you were a jerk to your last girlfriend, no one will want to date you.
     • Don't cheat. If you cheat, not only will she find out sooner or later and dump you, but it can emotionally scar her and is very mean. If you feel like you need to cheat for any reason, then it's time to re-evaluate your relationship.
     • Impress her show her you're a real gentleman and don't ever kiss on the first date unless she is ready to.